A few weeks ago I got an e-mail from a reader requesting an S Spot button for him to put up on his blog.

So as soon as I got the chance, I didn’t just make ONE button - I made a whole fleet of them!What can I say? I like you give you options.^_~
Here they are, the sexiest S Spot buttons you’ll find anywhere:
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Original post by Shay and software by Elliott Back

My husband actually objected to the idea of needing to woo me all over again! You see, I made him feel guilty and he didn’t like it. He tends to get defensive/stubborn/angry if you make him feel guilty. It’s been a problem before for us. Lest you think he is always an oafish and selfish creature (as lately I know I’ve depicted him, what with the boob fetish and now this), this rather unappealing aspect only tends to come out when we’ve been having some type of marital problem, and it’s not something that I have ever seen him exhibit outside of our marriage. I think it’s his unproductive response to marital stress or anything that can be construed as criticism from me. It’s probably some leftover psychological gooey from having his mother & aunts pick at him all the time when he was a little kid (his father was away at sea most of the time).
Finally, I got him to see how rejected he had made me feel. Finally, I think he felt some sympathy for me and real regret, as in actually thinking what he did was wrong, not just that I was overreacting. I *do* think I didn’t handle it well, but a boob job should never be an ultimatum. Having this issue come up in our marriage also made me realize that in some ways I’m too laid back (but not in the sexual yummy way). I’ve grown too tolerant because I don’t assert my needs enough outside of the bedroom. For example, I let him get away with having too much of a temper (no violence-just very nasty body language and cutting remarks that only a loved one can give); I cry instead of call him out on it.
So, we are trying to make a go of it, but this time around a few things are different. I still love and crave sex; that hasn’t changed, but there is just a tiny bit of spark missing with my marriage. Just over a year ago, I wrote a post about how wonderful it was to embark upon my sexual exploration with my husband, but I can’t say the same thing right now. I think the trust and confidence I had for him isn’t quite there. Maybe time will bring it back, but it’s hard to forget that less than a year ago he threatened divorce because of B-cup breasts.
I really want to explore my kinky side, but I do feel a bit more more hesitant with my husband than before. Even so, my mind and body want it so badly that I do manage to overcome this feeling, at least for the moment. So, in this interim period, I’ve still had some wonderful sex. The best was when I *unintentionally* challenged my husband to dominate me; I’ll post about that soon!

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Original post by tieme-n-spankme and software by Elliott Back

This week I present to you a videothat showswhat would have happened at AAG’s Blogaversary party

if we had all been there in person.^_~As if you needed a warning - this is NOT work safe.

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Original post by Shay and software by Elliott Back

Just before I went on vacation (ages ago) my super awesome kegel ninja shirt arrived in the mail!And now I finally have a chance to post a picture of me wearing it:

Ta Da!Pretty cool, eh?
Read more about the kegel ninja here
get your own ninja shirt here so that you can send me a pic that I can post!
Speaking of awesome S Spot shits, check out the one my friend made for his SecondLife character:

Nifty!

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Original post by Shay and software by Elliott Back

This week’s lovely cock comes from “None” of HowILearnedtoLovePorn, he sent in a number of shots, so I chose my two favourites:

“I love your blog and would like to submit a few cock shots as you requested. Here are some that I like,
please let me know what you think. You know, it is very hard to take pictures of your own
cock … ha!“

It’s like before and after shots! ^_^

Give your cock or cunt some time in the spotlight - Send a picture to me(

the.s.spot@gmail.com

); I would be happy to alternate between cockblogging and cuntblogging if I were to receive more pictures from my female readers/fellow bloggers. So Ladies and Gentlemen get out your cameras; and start convincing your partners, wives, husbands, girlfriends, boyfriends, close friends, etc (especially if YOU have already sent in a pic for cock/cuntblogging) ^_~

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Original post by Shay and software by Elliott Back

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Spotlighting the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #49? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s PicksThe Luckiest Girl in the World (http://alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)“Would he have the energy, the stamina, to make me come as much as I need to come?”
I Want To Shave You (http://makemycopcome.blogspot.com)“That luscious plum, that erotic ridge around it, the enticing veins tracing their way up that cock I am so engrossed in…”
The Rum Raisin Compromise (http://talktovanessa.com)“My husband did not understand why I couldn’t live the rest of my life without the taste of a woman passing my lips.”
Mr. Sugasm HimselfHow to Give Away Porn (http://sugarbank.com)
Editors’ ChoiceRope Bondage Images (http://www.lumpesse.com)
Sexy Audio & Video
Hear My Name (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)How to Give a Blowjob in a Car (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)Sex Inspiration, Study & Dream - Video Blog Entry (http://www.seska4lovers.com)Slave Girl: Part One (http://fuckingtheministersdaughter.blogspot.com)
Sex News and Sexy ReviewsCraigslist User Publicizes Private Correspondence (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com/blog)Do Video Games Effect Our Sex Lives? (Survey) (http://sugarjoy.com)The Five Best Tera Patrick Scenes of All Time (http://blog.johnqafterhours.com)Inflatable Vibrating Penis (http://www.orgasmarmy.com)Tire Paddle HNT (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
NSFW PicsAdela & Susana (http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)Ass Masterpiece (http://www.internetisforporn.com)Consolation Eye Candy, or What a Wild, Wild Month! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)Featured DDGirls Covergirl Sunny Leone (http://www.ddgirlsblog.com)Put on a Shirt HNT (http://texasspitfire.blogspot.com)Roxy in booty shorts (http://phatbootysolos.ilovejulienight.com)Two Bad Girls in a Prison Bed (http://adelehaze.com)WebMistress Feature Gallery: Scenic Silver Reef (http://www.taratainton.com)
Thoughts on Sex and RelationshipsAdult Webcam Humor (http://www.model-chat.com)Boobies (http://edinerotica.blogspot.com)Erotic Rather Than Fucking (http://orgasmcurious.blogspot.com)Phain’s Tasty Specs… (http://wetbeyondbelief.blogspot.com)Science of Sex - Sense of Smell (http://www.seskuality.com)Sex Goddess??? (http://thegooseandgander.blogspot.com)“Three sex acts enter, one sex act leaves.” (http://sexeteria.blogspot.com)The Vagina and the Douche (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Erotic Writing and Experiences2. Greet (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)Dreaming of a Dark Odyssey (http://viviane212.blogspot.com)The Eternal Hotness of Hanna (http://theholidaylife.blogspot.com)Get Caught Looking now! (http://lustylady.blogspot.com)My Taxicab Confession (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)Room 304, Part I (http://www.chillivanilla.com/blg)Teresa (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
BDSM and FetishHappy HNT-Cheerleader Paddling (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)Lions, Tigers, and Spankings! Oh my! (http://spankingkatiespades.blogspot.com)A Long Awaited Erotic Very Sexy Spanking Session… Finally (http://lizzietush.blogspot.com)Melinda Makes a Discovery… (http://www.blog.sex-mad-witch.com)Pajama Party (http://thebinside.blogspot.com)She was like a wild animal… (http://everythingoze.blogspot.com)Switching My Bottom On (http://spankingwriters.com/blog)
Photo of Adele Haze and Niki Flynn courtesy of Adele Haze’s “Spanking Model Speaks”
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Original post by Shay and software by Elliott Back

My first vibe ever was a little hard pink plastic pointy thing (see-through so I could see the motor); I had gotten it from a friend who felt that I should have one since I was away at university. To be honest, I think I used it once and didn’t like it so it ended up as a pretty paper weight on my desk.
But despite my not-so-great first experiences, I was pretty excited to see my mini mite arrive in the mail.
I got my mini mite vibrator from Intimate gifts. I was really excited to play with it because it comes with four different massage heads, each meant for a different type of stimulation.The whole thing is about 12 cm( 5 inches) long, so it’s pretty compact and it’s waterproof - making it shower and hot tub friendly. It’s pretty similar in design to the pocket rocket massager, but with the two differences that I just mentioned: it’s waterproof and it’s got those 4 different heads.
I made sure to try each head in turn to find out which one I liked the best. I tried the nipple enlarger first, then the anal exciter, finishing up with the clitoris stimulator. Not having a penis, I later loaned the toy to a friend so that he could try the penis arouser head.
What I liked: At first I thought that having four different heads was a silly idea, but after thinking about and playing with it I’ve decided that it’s a really fun and smart idea. Having four different massage heads with names telling you where you use them really encourages you to try the vibe out on different parts of your body, instead of sticking to your known hot spot(s).
The mini mite is a powerful little vibe, which is great because it was really easily to maneuver and focus the powerful vibrations right where I wanted them. The waterproof-ness was also a great feature because playing in the shower (or tub) where you’re warm and slippery and soapy is a lot of fun (especially as the weather gets colder up here).
I also liked how easy it was to change the massage heads, even with wet hands. I sampled all of the heads and while each one was interesting, I found that the clit head was the best all around head for… well, everything. My friend also enjoyed testing this toy - he sampled the different heads too and agrees that the clit head is the best one.
What I didn’t like: At first I really didn’t like how the whole contraption vibrates because it was making my hand numb, but after a while (and a few more trials) I found that I didn’t notice it bothering me anymore. I also found it a little hard to vary the speed, which isn’t a huge deal, but hey, you asked.
This toy would be great for: Someone looking to spice up their masturbation and couples who want to play. This is a great compact toy for […]

Original post by Shay and software by Elliott Back